Showing posts with label ExCeRpTs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ExCeRpTs. Show all posts

Monday, April 08, 2013

You Are Special




The Wemmicks were small wooden people. Each of the wooden people was carved by a woodworker named Eli. His workshop sat on a hill overlooking their village. Every Wemmick was different. Some had big noses, others had large eyes. Some were tall and others were short. Some wore hats, others wore coats. But all were made by the same carver and all lived in the village. And all day, every day, the Wemmicks did the same thing: They gave each other stickers. Each Wemmick had a box of golden star stickers and a box of gray dot stickers. Up and down the streets all over the city, people could be seen sticking stars or dots on one another.

The pretty ones, those with smooth wood and fine paint, always got stars. But if the wood was rough or the paint chipped, the Wemmicks gave dots. The talented ones got stars, too. Some could lift big sticks high above their heads or jump over tall boxes. Still others knew big words or could sing very pretty songs. Everyone gave them stars. 

Some Wemmicks had stars all over them! Every time they got a star it made them feel so good that they did something else and got another star. Others, though, could do little. They got dots.
Punchinello was one of these. He tried to jump high like the others, but he always fell. And when he fell, the others would gather around and give him dots. 

Sometimes when he fell, it would scar his wood, so the people would give him more dots. He would try to explain why he fell and say something silly, and the Wemmicks would give him more dots. After a while he had so many dots that he didn't want to go outside. He was afraid he would do something dumb such as forget his hat or step in the water, and then people would give him another dot. In fact, he had so many gray dots that some people would come up and give him one without reason. "He deserves lots of dots," the wooden people would agree with one another. "He's not a good wooden person." 

After a while Punchinello believed them. "I'm not a good Wemmick," he would say. The few times he went outside, he hung around other Wemmicks who had a lot of dots. He felt better around them.
One day he met a Wemmick who was unlike any he'd ever met. She had no dots or stars. She was just wooden. Her name was Lucia. It wasn't that people didn't try to give her stickers; it's just that the stickers didn't stick. Some admired Lucia for having no dots, so they would run up and give her a star. But it would fall off. Some would look down on her for having no stars, so they would give her a dot. But it wouldn't stay either. 'That's the way I want to be,'thought Punchinello. 'I don't want anyone's marks.' So he asked the stickerless Wemmick how she did it. "It's easy," Lucia replied. "every day I go see Eli." 

"Eli?" "Yes, Eli. The woodcarver. I sit in the workshop with him." "Why?" "Why don't you find out for yourself? Go up the hill. He's there." 

And with that the Wemmick with no marks turned and skipped away. "But he won't want to see me!" Punchinello cried out. Lucia didn't hear. So Punchinello went home. He sat near a window and watched the wooden people as they scurried around giving each other stars and dots. "It's not right," he muttered to himself. And he resolved to go see Eli. He walked up the narrow path to the top of the hill and stepped into the big shop. His wooden eyes widened at the size of everything. The stool was as tall as he was. He had to stretch on his tiptoes to see the top of the workbench. A hammer was as long as his arm. Punchinello swallowed hard. "I'm not staying here!" and he turned to leave. Then he heard his name. 

"Punchinello?" The voice was deep and strong. Punchinello stopped. "Punchinello! How good to see you. Come and let me have a look at you." Punchinello turned slowly and looked at the large bearded craftsman. "You know my name?" the little Wemmick asked. 

"Of course I do. I made you." Eli stooped down and picked him up and set him on the bench. "Hmm," the maker spoke thoughtfully as he inspected the gray circles. "Looks like you've been given some bad marks." "I didn't mean to, Eli. I really tried hard." "Oh, you don't have to defend yourself to me, child. I don't care what the other Wemmicks think." "You don't?" 

No, and you shouldn't either. Who are they to give stars or dots?

They're Wemmicks just like you. What they think doesn't matter, Punchinello. All that matters is what I think. And I think you are pretty special."

Punchinello laughed. "Me, special? Why? I can't walk fast. I can't jump. My paint is peeling. Why do I matter to you?" 

Eli looked at Punchinello, put his hands on those small wooden shoulders, and spoke very slowly. "Because you're mine. That's why you matter to me."

Punchinello had never had anyone look at him like this--much less his maker. He didn't know what to say.
"Every day I've been hoping you'd come," Eli explained.
"I came because I met someone who had no marks."
"I know. She told me about you."
"Why don't the stickers stay on her?"
"Because she has decided that what I think is more important than what they think. The stickers only stick if you let them."
"What?"
"The stickers only stick if they matter to you. The more you trust my love, the less you care about the stickers."
"I'm not sure I understand."
"You will, but it will take time. You've got a lot of marks. For now, just come to see me every day and let me remind you how much I care." Eli lifted Punchinello off the bench and set him on the ground. "Remember," Eli said as the Wemmick walked out the door. 

"You are special because I made you. And I don't make mistakes." 

Punchinello didn't stop, but in his heart he thought, "I think he really means it."
And when he did, a dot fell to the ground.

May all your dots fall silently to the ground, for if given by man, they matter only to other men, if given by the Gods, no one questions, the scars that make up our lives. (when given the choice, pass out stars, drop the dots in the trash.) 

-Max Lucado-

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Confident Living in Anxious Times

 "Fear paralyzes the mind, making us unable to think clearly.
Fear of great magnitude disorganizes the mind so that confusion reigns.
Fear also has a way of multiplying itself.
We are so disabled of being afraid that we become afraid of our fears.
We cannot face problems when we are afraid of them"
                                                                                                  -Maurice Wagner-
                                                                                                                  The Sensation of Being Somebody



     Being a natural "worrywart", fear and anxiety has always been a part of my life. From the simplest "what will I wear?... to the more gruesome "Will there be world war 3?"... name it! prinoblema ko na lahat yan!... I guess it has something to do with the way I was trained to think while I was growing up. I'm trying to fight it, though, I must admit... It is a struggle!... Old habits die hard as they say... 

Luckily, being the the investigative worrywart that I am... I came across these facts... All yah fellow nervous Nellies out there... READ ON!

  • Psychologist tells us that the majority of the fears we feel never actually come true.
  • Fear is always subject to God's truth.
  • Christ never abandons us regardless of the situation. Emergencies and sudden traumas are the very times when God wants us to sense his presence the strongest.
  • Like any part of the Christian life, emotions must be kept in balance and be placed in subjection to Christ. If not, they will dominate our lives!
  •  Don't blame yourself! It is the natural consequences of the circumstances surrounding you that bread instability and fear.
  •  All Satan needs to harass us is an opportunity. Prayer and the word of God are the most effective weapons we have against fear. When we acknowledge a sense of fearfulness to the Lord and ask for his protection and guidance. We position ourselves in faith.
  • FEAR IS A CHOICE!!!
  • If a person insists on believing some fearful thought that is not true, his life will be riddled in fear.
  • Christ has given us freedom. There is no need to live in sin or fear.
  • It takes faith to master a fear problem.
  • Faith accepts the fact that the problem is too much for us and also the fact that we are not alone in our problem; we have God with us.
  • Whatever is holding us captive must release it's grip when you command it to. Do so in the name of Jesus Christ.
  •  Fear or any emotional bondage cannot rule your life. The only power it has in your life is the power you give it. IT IS A MATTER OF CHOICE!
  • We are not destined to be sinful nor are we born to a life of fearfulness.
  • Only God is sovereign. He is our only source of security.
  • Doubt is a key contributor to fear.
  • Instead of turning to God in prayer, our minds drift from one imagined problem to another.
  • We try to fix everything on our own, without God's grace, and end up spiritually and emotionally exhausted.
  • Satan loves to get us running emotionally. He goes to great lengths to get us to imagine all kinds of things.
  • A single though can multiple and grow a thousand times over when it is watered by the enemy's lies. His chief objective is to cause us to stop trusting God. Once we do, he steals our sense of peace and hope. You begin to doubt the promises of God and before you know it, Fear has erected a power base in your life. 

The Consequences of Fear
  1. Fear stifles our capacity to think and act properly.
  2. Fear causes indecision.
  3. Fear diminishes our capacity of achieve. People who are fearful often give up quickly.
  4. Fear causes torment. We become so engrossed by fear, blind to the change it has brought to our lives. We worry about even the smallest things, questioning ourselves if we have done the right thing.
  5. Fear damages our relationship with others. If we've been hurt by someone before, our fear of getting hurt again causes us to withdraw.
  6. Fear damages our relationship with God.
  7. Fear interferes with our enjoyment of life. Through the eyes of fear, there is only darkness and impending doom.
Understanding the cycle of fear, coping with the causes of anxiety when and before they arise can prevent the development of fear.

How to Handle Fear
  1. Acknowledge that you have a problem with fear or that something has caused you to feel fearful.
  2. Identify the fear.
  3. Stop giving fear a place in your life. They belong to the enemy. As a child of God, place them in submission to Jesus Christ immediately.
  4. Take each thought and feeling and ask God to provide a verse or scripture that you can claim as a promise against the fear or feeling. It is God's will that you be set free from every fear.
  5. Learn to focus on the truth. This is the critical step in changing our fears to towers of faith. Train yourself to STOP focusing on the negative and begin focusing on the POSITIVE.
  6. Admit your fears to God and seek his wisdom concerning the issue.
  7. Ask God to help you and trust him to a greater degree.
Breaking through fear takes time but God promises to be with you along the way, encouraging you and protecting you as you go.


Thank you: 
Charles F. Stanley

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

by Russel Kelfer thru The Purpose Driven Life

You are who you are for a reason
You're part of an intricate plan
You're a precious and perfect unique design
Called God's special woman or man

You look like you look for a reason
Our God made no mistake
He knit you together within the womb
You're just what he wanted to make

The parents you had were the one's he chose
And no matter how you may feel
They were custom-designed with God's plan in mind
And they bear the Master's seal

No, that trauma you faced was not easy
And God wept that it hurt you so
But it was allowed to shape your heart
So that into his likeness you'd grow

You are who you are for a reason
You've been formed by the Master's rod
You are who you are, beloved
Because there is a God!